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Father jumps ship for family

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  • By Staff Sgt. Andrew Caya
  • 914 Airlift Wing Public Affairs
Dodging enemy bullets and jumping out of perfectly good airplanes to render aid to combat wounded was "fun" to a younger Brad Levander.

During his 14 years as a U.S. Navy special forces medic, now Senior Master Sgt. Brad Levander found that a high deployment tempo with Marine Corps and Army Special Forces units made him miss out on raising his family.

"I was home on leave when Brad was a young boy, and he asked me to go to school with him for show and tell," Sergeant Levander said. "I had all sorts of trinkets, pictures and stories from my traveling around the world, so I asked Brad what he would like me to show his class and he said, ' Daddy, I don't want you to bring anything, I just want you to come to school so everyone sees I have a daddy.'

"That was gut-wrenching for a grown man to hear from his own son."
Despite transferring into the Air Force Reserve, earning the rank of Senior Master Sergeant and the position of senior Air Reserve Technician for the 81st Aerial Port Squadron here, Sergeant Levander is most pleased with his decision to leave active duty.

"Working in and being a part of the special forces community was fun ─ the stories are great, pictures are grand ─ but I missed out on being a father," Sergeant Levander said. "I elected to get out of the Navy and join the Air Force Reserve, and I haven't regretted it since day one."

When his son came to him with military aspirations of his own, Sergeant Levander balked at the thought.

" I discouraged him from joining the military, because I didn't want him to lose what I lost ... time with family. You never get that back," Sergeant Levander said.

Despite what his father experienced, now for Senior Airman Bradley Levander Jr., the desire for adventure could not be cast aside.

"If I wasn't so family oriented I would have followed more in the path my dad had gone," Airman Levander said. "If my family was not so close, I would have done something with more adrenaline."

After thinking about what was important to him and receiving counsel from his father, Brad Jr. joined the Air Force Reserve as a 315th Maintenance Squadron non-destructive inspector apprentice.

"My father considered himself a 'brat' of all services," Airman Levander said. "I wanted to be a part of the military, not just having grown up with it."

Sergeant Levander and his son may share the same name, however, the elder said "I only gave him the name. He's got his own path to walk."