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An Airman's reflection of Father's Day

  • Published
  • By Staff Sgt. Shane Ellis
  • 315 AW Public Affairs
Commentary - When I hear songs from the 1970s, see snow falling to the ground, or simply smell fresh cut grass on a hot summer day, memories of time spent with my dad make my grown man's face light up with a little boy's smile.

My dad and I live 700 miles apart, and we don't get to see each other that much with so many miles between us. We still take time to create memories every chance we get, and these memories are moments in time I will never have the opportunity to duplicate. I will cherish them forever.

Looking back over the years, I realize the most precious memories of all are the times spent with my father. I'm sure all of the things he bought me and provided for me were great; however, the greatest treasure he ever gave me was his time.

I'm a father now, and much of my time is devoted to making memories with my children. These are the early years, and giving them my time is more than just being in close proximity.

As a father, I laugh with my children, I play with my children, and I comfort my children. I do my best to see every opportunity with them as a learning opportunity and a teachable moment. These opportunities and moments I may never get back if I don't seize each moment in time.

My goal as a father is to leave a legacy my children will be proud of when I am gone. Faith, hope and love build the foundation of my home. Pride in my country and the deepest respect for all mankind ensure my legacy as a father will stand the test of time.

My father served in the Army many years ago. Today, I wear the uniform of the Air Force. When I arrived home the other evening, my daughter told me I looked handsome in my uniform. She is 4 years old, and as one of her role models I love the fact that in her eyes I look good in my military uniform.

I am a firm believer every father has an obligation to serve this great country in some form or fashion. Regardless if he wears a uniform, a suit, a pair of jeans or shorts, it's what he gives from the inside, not what he wears on the outside, that matters.

To fathers all over the world, I hope you have fond memories of your father. I encourage you to make the best of the time you have with your children so that our Father's Day legacy will live on for countless generations through the lives of those who follow after us.

I salute you today for the contributions you are making to our children, our nation and our future, and regardless what you have on this Father's Day, I'm sure you will look handsome.

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