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Seeing Through the Trees

  • Published
  • By Master Sgt. Barry A. McCourry
  • 701 AS First Sergeant
CHARLESTON AFB, S.C. --  The ability to tune out is an important yet often overlooked skill that we as Airmen need to possess these days. As the Air Force molds itself into a more virtual force we need to make a conscious effort to see through the technological trees that make our lives much easier. These advances can make our lives much more convenient, but at the same time can be very distracting and diminish essential face-to-face contact.

As a First Sergeant, I make a concerted effort to truly get to know my people as well as the many people that I encounter at different agencies Command wide. I try to always remind myself that people, not machines, are my passion. I don't want to simply look through a virtual window but really get to know others through conversation and dialogue. Unfortunately, like many of you I spend about ninety percent of my time on computers sifting through emails, PowerPoints, spreadsheets and computer based training modules. Remember the chapter in the Tongue and Quill on "Electronic Communication"? The first words are "Well, I made it through my e-mail...time for Lunch!"

While I understand that we often have limited time to address each need with a phone call or face-to-face meeting, I also understand that we as leaders need to be sure that we step away from all of the data and tune in to each other via activities that nurture the advantages of being human versus typing on a machine. You would be surprised by what you might find out about each other as you engage in a real discussion about each other's plans, goals and other interests. Or maybe a personal issue might bubble up that you can relate to and give assistance with.

My idea is not that different from the Wingman concept which along with the core values is the cornerstone of service in the Air Force. I feel that we should all remember that being a good wingman should also incorporate a detuning concept. I once had a civilian job where I was bombarded by noise and movement all day and night. Once my shift was over, all I wanted was quiet. Similarly, I feel that the virtual noise is screaming at us all to step away. I think that once you tune in to another person through eye contact and personal interaction, if even for fifteen minutes, you can accomplish something that would compete with an entire day of work behind a computer.

With the holidays upon us, it is an especially good time to step back from the screen and seek each other's company. Hopefully, you will all have many chances to spend time with family and friends in relaxing atmospheres where you can really connect with one another on a personal level. Consider setting a New Year's resolution for yourself to establish boundaries between technology and human interaction. I wish you all a very safe and joyous holiday season.